How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

At least 8 dead in shooting near Israeli and US-supported aid sites in Gaza - NPR

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What transforms the philosophical intellect?

That's it for today.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Could supermassive black holes anchor the tiniest galaxies? - Big Think

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do you have any attributes quirks sensitivities abilities etc that you've come to learn most people don't experience? E.g. dream with subtext or experience de ja vu regularly or know you experience life very differently from those around you etc?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How is digital marketing important for business?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Trump is going to target known criminals in the country illegally for deportation. The Democrats have vowed to fight him every step of the way. Don't they understand this is one of the issues that cost them the white house, the house and senate?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why cant a narcissist admit when they are wrong?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How many boxes 600 x 400 x 200 go into a 20ft container?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What does it mean if you dream your dad died?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why are Republicans so brainwashed and oblivious to the fact that a lot of the price increases going on right now is due to corporate greed, not inflation?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?